Can you love two people at the same time?

Someone asked me this question. Hm, Okay so here is my opinion - I think yes you can love 2 people at the same time. But you have to love one more than the other. & if you really do love both of them - then you wouldn’t do anything to hurt one or the other. Example: Cheating. why would you cheat on anyone you love to satisfy your own desires to be with 2 people you know? that is not love. that is selfish.

PS: If you love someone you will be faithful to that person, no matter what “feelings” arise (no pun intended) for another person.

I’m SELFISH, IMPATIENT and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times HARD TO HANDLE. But if you can’t handle me at my WORST, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.

I agree with Marilyn Monroe that if someone can’t handle you at your worst then they don’t deserve you at your best, but if you never show them your best then what’s going to offset the damage you do showing them your worse? What reason will they have to tolerate your bad behavior if they never see you at your best? I DON’T UNDERSTAND! LOL

Jealousy is my greatest flaw, and I get REALLY jealous. I don’t even want him having girls as friends, or him talking about his past and I just don’t know what to do, I’m ruining a great relationship with my own insecurities, and it hurts, but I can’t control it.

Haven’t been in a very good mood of late. I don’t understand why must all things just come at one time. I’m pretty much stressed on some personal issues. Maybe I deserve all this shit.

I’ve not been sleeping well, so don’t mind if you think I’m blabbering here, or if you manage to catch a few typos here and there. Please ignore me, I sincerely need to vent.

*P.S. I know it all sounds complicated. Fuck it.. I don’t even understand myself.

"Buwan ng Wika"

In English, "August! The Month of Language!".

Hello there everyone! How are you all doing? Me, I'm doing fine! By the way, I missed you all when I was away in the blogging world! I would never leave you for so long ever again, well, if I'm really busy and all, I could really leave you for so long. So, yeah.

I'm going to speak in Filipino for a while here in my blog post, since this month is the Buwan ng Wika! I'm so sorry to some who couldn't understand Filipino, you may choose not to read the part anymore.

Magandang gabi po sa inyong lahat! Katulad sa sinabi ko sa itaas, ngayon ay Agosto, ang Buwan ng Wika! Ayon sa WikiFilipino,

"Sinasalamin ng selebrasyong ito ang kahalagahan ng Filipino bilang pambansang wika. Sa bawat taon, ang mga institusyong pang-edukasyon kagaya ng mga paaralan at unibersidad, at ang mga sangay ng pamahalaan, ay sama-samang nakikilahok sa iba’t ibang mga gawain tulad ng mga paligsahan sa pagsulat ng sanaysay, mga pagtatanghal, parada, at iba pang paraan nang pagpapakita ng paggamit ng wikang Filipino."

Ang tema para ngayong taong 2010 ay, " Pangangalaga  ng  Wika  at  Kalikasan,  Wagas  na  Pagmamahal  Talagang  Kailangan ". Ang magiging eksplanasyon ko nito ay,

“Sa pangangalaga ng wika at kalikasan, wagas na pagmamahal ang kailangan”. Ang ibig sabihin nito ay ang susi sa tama na pangangalaga ng wika at kalikasan ay nandiyan lamang sa wagas na pagmamahalan nating mga Pilipino, at kailangan natin ito para may kapayapaan ang ating bansa. Magagawa natin ang layunin na nais natin makamit sa pangangalaga ng wika sa pamamagitan ng pagtangkilik sa sariling atin, o gumamit ng sariling pambansang wikang Filipino, o kaya kumanta at maglahad ng maayos ng pambansang awit at Panatang Makabayan, gumalang sa watawat sa pamamagitan ng hindi pagsuway nito, at marami pang iba. Hindi gaano umuunlad ang ating bansa dahil hindi ang mga ito ginagawa masyado ng lahat ng Pilipino. Kaya, gawin nga dapat ang mga ito sa pamamagitan ng pagmamahalan natin. Kung may pagmamahalan, may kapayapaan, at ito ay patunguhin sa maayos na pangangalaga ng wika.

Sa pangangalaga ng kalikasan naman, ang magagawa natin para pangalagaan nito ay hindi tayo tumapon ng basura kung kahit saan, sa mga anyong tubig man, anyong lupa, o sa lansangan, paghiwalayin din natin ang mga basura sa nabubulok at di-nabubulok, linisin natin ang mga nakakalat na basura, magtulungan sa mga proyekto ng gobyerno na may kinalaman sa pangangalaga ng kalikasan, hindi rin natin pitasin ang mga halaman, hindi pag sang-ayon sa illegal logging, dynamite fishing, at kaingin, at may marami-rami pang dapat gawin. Disiplina naman ang kailangan natin para dito. Kailangan rin natin ng pagmamahal para matamo ang disiplinang ito, na patungo naman sa kapayapaan.

Sa ganitong mga gawain, matamo natin ang wagas na pagmamahal at patungo naman ito sa maayos na pangangalaga ng wika at kalikasan.

   

 Ako ay sumabak sa isang " major major " na palatuntunan at nanalo bilang Ginoong Luzon '10 este Mutya ng Luzon '10. 

Gusto niyo pa ba na magsalita ako dito ng Filipino? haha..hindi nlng, baka hindi na maiinteresado ang mga dayuhan sa pagbasa ng post na ito.

You know why I gave this "Buwan ng Wika" this much attention? It's because I love my country, the Philippines, so much, inspite of Philippines hostage crisis last August 23, 2010 and I decided to give "Buwan ng Wika" this kind of dedication! And, another reason, it's because the next month would be September, and you know what that means? It's going to be the month of my birthday! haha..I know, it's funny that I'm already very excited for my birthday (September 26). But who cares? At least it would already be next month! Yay! I'm turning 15! waah..old! LOL! And September also would be the month of my two favorite subjects, Math and Science! Cool!

Well, that's it for now! I hope you enjoyed reading my post! :D

 

Kawasan Falls - Badian

     Kawasan Falls is a popular getaway destination in the southern part of Cebu.When you get to Badian Town, you'll have to walk 15 to 30 minutes or less along a very rocky and narrow path. But even though you might stumble a bit, just take it easy and enjoy the trek going up.

    There's a beautiful river and all different kinds of tropical plants.It's not everyday you'll have a beautiful view like this.

     You'll have to cross 3 small bridges before reaching the falls. Try to stop at this moment and look upstream.Your camera can't wait to take some shots of the background and give you a forever lasting picture of what paradise is.

     Kawasan has three waterfalls. The first one is the largest and is usually the most crowded.You can bring some food and drinks. 

     But If you want to just relax you don't have to bring in food since it's available from the resort's restaurants.Cottage and tables are also available for rent.

     You should rent a bamboo raft to take you around the lake, or for a refreshing "waterfall massage" under the falling water. You have the opportunity to climb up beside the waterfall and jump into the water, just like Tarzan.

While me and my cousins are enjoying the cool and deep freshwater, the surroundings are relaxing and peaceful. Remember that this area is popular with locals as well as visitors!

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A GHOST / MYSTICAL STORY - KAWASAN FALLS, BADIAN

CEBU CITY, Philippines – Ghosts and mystical stories are nothing new at one of Cebu's popular tourist destinations — the Kawasan falls in Badian town, Cebu.

According to locals, it is not every year that a person dies at the falls but every two years.
The deaths were a warning, according to a quack doctor or locally known as “mananambal,” whose services was sought on the death of a tourist several years ago.
It takes sometime for the body of a person, who drowns at the falls, to surface, which fuels the stories.
Oliver Harapat, 29, who works for the Kawasan Multi-Purpose Cooperative, said there is a story that the spirits of the forest locally known as “engkanto” ask for 60 human souls in exchange for disturbing their once peaceful place which is now congested with cottages put up by several resorts in the three-tier falls.
He said no explanation was given on why the spirits needed 60 souls.
Although Harapat and a handful of other workers laughed when asked if they believed in the tale, fear is still etched on their faces. Some local workers chose to remain silent all throughout the interview.

“Those are just tales but some say that black figures appear in the pictures of tourists. Sometimes, they say photographs show white ladies,” Harapat said in Cebuano.
On Easter Sunday, the family of Nelson Tiro who drowned in the second falls on Maundy Thursday, brought a mananambal to ask for the spirits to free the soul of Tiro, said the worker.
Harapat was the one who dived and recovered the body of Tiro about 30 minutes after he drowned.
Emma Saldua, an operator of Willy's Place, the pioneering resort at the falls, said that she believed in “engkantos” but not in the tale that the spirits asked for human souls.
“They are really there. We must make sure not to disturb them so they will not harm us,” Saldua said in Cebuano.
When an Iranian visitor drowned at the falls a few years back, she said the spirits' help was sought before the Iranian’s body was found. The divers exhausted themselves in searching for his body for almost two hours but to no avail. When they asked the spirits, the Iranian's body surfaced instantly, the operator said.
Last New Year's Eve, Saldua said she was the only one left at the resort. There were no guests and she was practically alone at the first falls.
“Nakadungog man ko ug murag daghan kaayo mga tao nga saba ug sadya kaayo (I heard a lot of people making noise and seemingly having a party).”
Thinking these were arriving guests, Saldua went to open the doors and windows of the resort's convenience store but found no one around.
Out of fear, she hurriedly locked up again and played loud music on her radio.